Inspirational Weekend
And It’s Winter Before We Know It!
You know, time has a way of moving quickly and catching you unaware of the passing years.
It seems just yesterday that I was young, just married and embarking on my new life with my mate. And yet in a way, it seems like eons ago, and I wonder where all the years went. I know that I lived them all…
And I have glimpses of how it was back then and of all my hopes and dreams… But, here it is..the winter of my life and it catches me by surprise… How did I get here so fast? Where did the years go and where did my babies go? And where did my youth go?
I remember well.. seeing older people through the years and thinking that those older people were years away from me and that winter was so far off that I could not fathom it or imagine fully what it would be like… But, here it is…my friends are retired and really getting gray…they move slower and I see an older person now. Lots are in better shape than me… but, I see the great change… Not like the ones that I remember who were young and vibrant… but, like me, their age is beginning to show and we are now those older folks that we used to see and never thought we’d be.
Each day now, I find that just getting a shower is a real target for the day! And taking a nap is not a treat anymore…it’s mandatory! Cause if I don’t on my own free will…I just fall asleep where I sit!
And so, now I enter into this new season of my life unprepared for all the aches and pains and the loss of strength and ability to go and do things that I wish I had done but never did!!
But, at least I know, that though the winter has come, and I’m not sure how long it will last…this I know, that when it’s over…its over….Yes , I have regrets. There are things I wish I hadn’t done ,,,,,things I should have done, but indeed, there are many things I’m happy to have done. It’s all in a lifetime….
So, if you’re not in your winter yet…let me remind you, that it will be here faster than you think. So, whatever you would like to accomplish in your life please do it quickly! Don’t put things off too long!!
Life goes by quickly. So, do what you can today, as you can never be sure whether this is your winter or not!
You have no promise that you will see all the seasons of your life…so, live for good today and say all the things that you want your loved ones to remember…and hope that they appreciate and love you for all the things that you have done for them in all the years past!!
‘Life is a gift to you. The way you live your life is your gift to those who come after.
Make it a fantastic one.’
This was sent to me by my dear sister-in-law and, being in the “winter of my life”, I thought it was worth sharing. It doesn’t matter if it’s the winter of your life yet, I promise it is coming; and if you follow the above steps, you will be prepared.
Until next time!
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Hi Judy,
Very nicely put…No matter what our age, these are things we all need to do. Thanks for sharing…and you’re right life is a gift!
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Yes, Barb, it is; the most precious gift we’ll ever receive. Thanks for commenting. I haven’t had time to get to your “Relaxing Wednesday”, but I will! “See” you soon!
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OMG you hit it so on the head… A while back (21 years ago in fact), we took my (then living) grandmother out for a birthday dinner. At 86, that birthday, I asked her “What does it feel like to be 86?” Her answer, “I feel like a 21 year old trapped in an old lady’s body.”
She said it with a smile, because that is the kind of person she always was, but still… now with your post, I’m reminded of that, along with yes the aches and pains and the “what the ___” exclamations as doing things gets a bit tougher. The spring of youth definitely moving on to the winter years.
Like your writeup, there are things I’d undo if I could. There are also so many things I have not done, but wonder deep in my heart if I’ll ever have the opportunity.
Lots of food for thought. You’d think in a depressing way, but overall, if I had to relive the years before (without knowing what I know now), hell no! LOL!
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Lol, Diane…Nor would I! But I do get an attack of nostalgia every now and again and I think…”wish I could go back for just one day”…but, then, reality hits and I think “gosh, I’d give up one day with my grandkids”…NO WAY! Thanks for your comment, dear…”see” you soon.
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Oh HONEY!
I almost cried when I saw the snowy picture. It’s just beautiful and made by day seeing it. It’s the kind of house I’ve always wanted and dream of often.
I wish you all the very best. I just adore your blog.
Warm Regards and Deepest Blessings to you and yours,
Love,
Maitri
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Good morning, dear Maitri. It’s the strangest thing…that house reminded me of you! I am so happy you stopped by as I think of you so often! Thanks you so very much for stopping by, my friend. You’ve brought a smile to my face to start my day.
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Those years pass a lot quicker these days, it seems like 2 weeks ago was spring and we were getting the bike ready to ride, yes we’re older bikers may have to get a Harley trike before long. I know I’d feel a lot safer on one even though Bill’s pretty strong for 61. Even with all my aches and pains I’d hate to be young again unless I could take Bill back with me.
That would be ideal, Jude…being young with the “man of your dreams” is an excellent idea if only in our dreams. Thanks for commenting and BE SAFE! Come back any time; always a pleasure to “see” you.
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Dear Judy…
Thank youl so very much for your inspirational prose. It was most subjective to me having lost my darling husband of 43 years on August 4th 2008. I cried for the loss of him, then smiled thinking of the life we had together, then I laughed uproariously at many memories of times spent with life-long friends and our long pillow-talks ’til the wee hours of a new day.
You said it all, which gladdened my heart and nourished my soul.
Kindest regards, Joanie
You are so very welcome, Joanie…and I think you are blessed to have such a great perspective on your husbands passing. I’m sure he wouldn’t have wanted it any other way. We always have our memories! Thanks for commenting, Joanie, and you are more than welcome here any time!
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